Rich, well-connected and handsome former NYC Advertising guru and heart throb, Donald “Donny” Deutsch was on the Wendy Williams Show today and as always, he had some honest and inspiring words to share with us women. That’s one thing I admire about him. He tells it like it is anytime, anywhere, any day. Below is some what he shared. She who has ears, let her hear...
I prefer to hire women executives because they are more collaborative. If you look at girls sitting together and playing on a Saturday morning, you see them playing together and collaborating and that’s the same behavior they take into the work place. With boys it’s different. It’s one way. It’s about, how big is my office? Or how high is the position? It’s a zero sum with them. They have to stake their claim on it and one person must win. I’ll take a woman executive over a man every single time.
This is my two cents on that, Donny is a man and may not have had to deal with women's cattiness and competitiveness that’s why he believes all women are nice and not competitive, which isn’t true. Women are not always the nice collaborating angels who "play well" together well like he put it. Women have their own manipulative ways to undermine, intimidate and hurt each other. It's just that they often don’t openly display their aggression with violence as men do. But these days, that’s changing too and some younger women are getting physically violent as can be seen on many of the reality shows on TV now.
Q&A
Q. What is the mistake most women make about their relationships?
A. They take advice from their girlfriends
Q. Is there a possibility of an unmarried president being in the white house?
A. We won’t see it. Mainstream America and most places outside of New York require a traditional president. A single president may insinuate that he’s a womanizer and begs the question, "Can he be trusted." I doubt if there can be a gay or single president, but he could be a widower with a child in a very traditional sense, which means he was married and his wife died.
Q. My female friends notice changes in my appearance more than my husband does. How can I get him to notice me more?
A. The way to keep his attention is to wear a “little outfit” AKA lingerie and role play.
Q. Men perceive me as intimidating. How can I make myself approachable?
A. If a man says that, he’s not the right one for you. That’s the litmus test about the right guy for you. You have to be who you are.
Q. I find myself with guys who just want to date me, but they don’t want everyone to know I’m their girlfriend. What can I do?
A. Any time a woman asks the question, “Why do I get this kind of guy? You have to look at yourself. What vibes are you sending out? These men may be afraid of intimacy or commitment. However, commitment should be the price of entry. Never be with a man if he won’t be exclusive with you, because if you do, he won’t respect you. If you lose him for that reason, you lose him. That’s better for you anyway.
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